It’s been awhile since I have done any blogging or video blogging, but I was inspired today to share with you a trick or tip that has helped me to care less about what other people think of me or about me, and to show up as the person I truly want to be.
When it comes to being a heart-centered entrepreneur, the energy you bring to the table is the single most important thing, and if you are concerned about how you are being viewed , perceived, or judged by others, then you aren’t giving it your all, and your work will suffer and you won’t be helping people to your fullest ability. This video contains an idea that might help you. Please comment and share.
PS: If you have a tip that might help others with this issue, please share it as a comment below. Questions are welcome too!
What do you do when things seem to manifest perfectly, but then that manifestation or creation ‘goes south’ all of a sudden. What happened? Did you mis-create? How should we handle it so that things turn out for the best?
Here’s a good example from my life, which is why it’s on my mind, this is happening right now for me: I found a great little apartment to help me transition from Hawaii to San Diego. In fact, the apartment found me.
I was in the airport waiting to fly out of Honolulu, on my way to San Diego, to where I was re-relocating after living for 18 months on the Big Island. An older gentleman asked if he could share the table where I sat eating. We struck up a conversation and it turned out he had a vacant apartment in Pacific Beach, just feet from the ocean, which is exactly what I wanted! It wasn’t a 2 bedroom, but it was clean, convenient, in the heart of town, and it had a good vibe. A few days later, I was moved into the apartment. I never even had to do an apartment search since it found me. Pretty cool huh? It’s a great little manifestation story that shows how easily things can fall into place for us when we are in alignment, and going with the flow. Love it when that happens…
But it just ‘went south’. Or did it? Four months later I returned from a little trip to Maui, and lo and behold there was a construction project underway in my back yard. Apparently my landlord had applied or building permits 2 years before. The permits were finally approved while I was back in Hawaii for a week, so while I was out of town his contractor started construction of a large addition onto the adjoining building just a few feet outside my back door. I had no notice whatsoever. Now it’s dusty, noisy, with construction workers and equipment everywhere. Interruptions to gas and electric, etc. Oh, and I found out the furnace doesn’t work. (Yes, we sometimes need heaters in Southern California). I feel the urgent need to move, and I gave him my 30 day notice.
So did I mis-manifest? Was my creation flawed? Did I do something wrong to cause this situation? All good questions, and you can probably remember similar situations in your own life where something seemed so perfect at first, but then turned out to be less than perfect. It happens in relationships all the time, right?
So how do we handle these situations?
Well here’s how I look at it. First, no, I did not ‘mis-manifest’ – the solution in this case, the apartment, was in fact perfect for a short period. It served its purpose of being shelter during a transition period. I am now successfully transitioned from Hawaii back to the mainland, and I have since identified further wants and needs.
In fact, the shortcomings of my current apartment actually helped me get clarity about what would be even better. Specifically, I value more space, and decided that was an important priority. I also really value having a hottub / jacuzzi, and decided my next apartment or house will have one of those. And I want a bit more privacy, and a nicer kitchen. But details aside, what is important to recognize is that life is all about change. And what serves as a perfect solution one day can very well be the ‘platform’ that gives rise to new, bigger better desires and preferences, so we in effect outgrow the old solution, and then need to align with the new solution to the new set of desires, or problems.
But if we get hung up on the idea that something good has turned ‘bad’, then we are shutting ourselves off from the energy that creates the ideal solutions to our new ‘problems’. We have to relax, and trust that the Universe knows exactly what it is doing, and is conspiring to create a wonderful life for us, if we can just get out of our own way. In short, don’t sabotage positive change by dwelling on the fact that things changed. Roll with it, assume that all will be well, and relax. Look forward to a better future, and have positive expectation that it will come about. And it will come about. Don’t look for errors in thinking, or try to pinpoint mistakes that were made, by any party. Just get clear about what you now want as a result from having had this experience.
I have already found a fantastic next apartment with a massive hottub, very unique landscaping and a huge outdoor party area, with a very nice kitchen, and a second bedroom which I will use as my office.
I REALLY want this next apartment, but if I don’t get it, of course I will be momentarily disappointed. That’s only normal. But I have faith that there is another one, and even better one, waiting right around the corner for me. It’s all about relaxing, trusting, and not over-analyzing the situation. Can you do that? Sure you can! it doesn’t matter if its a job, money, a car, or a lover, there is always something better right around the corner, but you have to cooperate by having a positive expectation that it will come to you in the perfect time. A positive expectation and a positive attitude will help accelerate the solution finding you.
I hope this little story helps you if you are wrestling with something similar. Can you relate? Has this happened to you? Tell me about it by leaving a comment. What did you do about it? Did it all work out? I want to hear from you!
To Your Prosperity,
I am not sure who compiled this list of quotes from The Secret, but I stumbled across it last year and thought I would share it. If you didn’t know, the catalyst and true wisdom behind The Secret is Abraham.
Read through each quote and enjoy the ones you like, and if some don’t resonate with you – no problem – just ignore them Just keep in mind that Law of Attraction is a very general ‘background’ law, much like gravity, that manages the energy flow and interaction of everything in our space-time, and at other levels that we cannot perceive. It works flawlessly and effortlessly and with Divine Intelligence. It’s workings are not mysterious or esoteric.
100 quotes from “The Secret”
1. We all work with one infinite power
2. The Secret is the Law of Attraction (LOA)
3. Whatever is going on in your mind is what you are attracting
4. We are like magnets – like attract like. You become AND attract what you think
5. Every thought has a frequency. Thoughts send out a magnetic energy
6. People think about what they don’t want and attract more of the same
7. Thought = creation. If these thoughts are attached to powerful emotions (good or bad) that speeds the creation
8. You attract your dominant thoughts
9. Those who speak most of illness have illness; those who speak most of prosperity have it, etc.
10. Its not “wishful” thinking.
11. You can’t have a universe without the mind entering into it
12. Choose your thoughts carefully… you are a masterpiece of your life!
13. It’s OK that thoughts don’t manifest into reality immediately (if we saw a picture of an elephant and it instantly appeared that would be too soon)
14. EVERYTHING in your life you have attracted… accept that fact… it’s true.
15. Your thoughts cause your feelings
16. We don’t need to complicate all the “reasons” behind our emotions. It’s much simpler than that. Two categories… good feelings, bad feelings.
17. Thoughts that bring about good feelings mean you are on the right track. Thoughts that bring about bad feelings means you are not on the right track.
18. Whatever it is you are feeling is a perfect reflection of what is in the process of becoming
19. You get exactly what you are FEELING
20. Happy feelings will attract more happy circumstances
21. You can begin feeling whatever you want (even if it’s not there)… the universe will correspond to the nature of your song
22. What you focus on with your thought and feeling is what you attract into your experience
23. What you think and what you feel and what actually manifests is ALWAYS a match – no exception
24. Shift your awareness!
25. “You create your own universe as you go along” Winston Churchill
26. It’s important to feel good ((((((good))))))
27. You can change your emotion immediately… by thinking of something joyful, or singing a song, or remembering a happy experience
28. When you get the hang of this, before you know it you will KNOW you are the creator
29. Life can and should be phenomenal… and it will be when you consciously apply the Law of Attraction
30. The Universe will re-arrange itself accordingly
31. Start by using this sentence for all of your wants: “I’m so happy and grateful now that…. “
32. You don’t need to know HOW the universe is going to rearrange itself
33. Law of Attraction (LOA) is simply figuring out for yourself what will generate the positive feelings of having it NOW
34. You might get an inspired thought or idea to help you move towards what you want faster
35. The universe likes SPEED. Don’t delay, don’t second-guess, don’t doubt…
36. When the opportunity or impulse is there… ACT
37. You will attract everything you require – money, people, connections… PAY ATTENTION to what’s being set in front of you
38. You can start with nothing… and out of nothing or no way – a WAY will be provided.
39. HOW LONG??? No rules on time… the more aligned you are with positive feelings the quicker things happen
40. Size is nothing to the universe (unlimited abundance if that’s what you wish) We make the rules on size and time
41. No rules according to the universe… you provide the feelings of having it now and the universe will respond
42. Most people offer the majority of their thought in response to what they are observing (bills in the mail, being late, having bad luck…etc…)
43. You have to find a different approach to what is through a different vantage point
44. “All that we are is a result of what we have thought” – Buddha
45. What can you do right now to turn your life around?? Gratitude
46. Gratitude will bring more into our lives immediately
47. What we think about and THANK about is what we bring about
48. What are the things you are grateful for?? Feel the gratitude… focus on what you have right now that you are grateful for
49. Play the picture in your mind – focus on the end result
50. VISUALIZE!!! Rehearse your future
51. VISUALIZE!!! See it, feel it! This is where action begins
52. Feel the joy… feel the happiness J
53. An affirmative thought is 100 times more powerful than a negative one
54. “What this power is, I cannot say. All I know is that it exists. “Alexander Graham Bell
55. Our job is not to worry about the “How”. The “How” will show up out of the commitment and belief in the “what”
56. The How’s are the domain of the universe. It always knows the quickest, fastest, most harmonious way between you and your dream
57. If you turn it over to the universe, you will be surprised and dazzled by what is delivered… this is where magic and miracles happen
58. Turn it over to the universe daily… but it should never be a chore.
59. Feel exhilarated by the whole process… high, happy, in tune
60. The only difference between people who are really living this way is they have habituated ways of being.
61. They remember to do it all the time
62. Create a Vision Board… pictures of what you want to attract…Every day look at it and get into the feeling state of already having acquired these wants
63. “Imagination is everything. It is the preview of life’s coming attractions.” Albert Einstein
64. Decide what you want… believe you can have it, believe you deserve it, believe it’s possible for you
65. Close your eyes and visualize having what you already want – and the feeling of having it already.
66. Focus on being grateful for what you have already… enjoy it!! Then release into the universe. The universe will manifest it.
67. “Whatever the mind of man can conceive, it can achieve” W. Clement Stone
68. Set a goal so big that if you achieved it, it would blow your mind.
69. When you have an inspired thought, you must trust it and act on it.
70. How can you become more prosperous?? INTEND IT!!
71. ‘Checks are coming in the mail regularly’… or change your bank statement to whatever balance you want in there… and get behind the feeling of having it.
72. Life is meant to be abundant in ALL areas…
73. Go for the sense of inner joy and peace; then all outside things appear
74. We are the creators of our universe
75. Relationships: Treat yourself the way you want to be treated by others… love yourself and you will be loved
76. Healthy respect for yourself
77. For those you work with or interact with regularly… get a notebook and write down positive aspects of each of those people.
78. Write down the things you like most about them (don’t expect change from them. Law of attraction will not put you in the same space together if you frequencies don’t match
79. When you realize your potential to feel good, you will ask no one to be different in order for you to feel good.
80. You will free yourself from the cumbersome impossibilities of needing to control the world, your friends, your mate, your children….
81. You are the only one that creates your reality
82. No one else can think or feel for you… its YOU… ONLY YOU.
83. Health: thank the universe for your own healing. Laugh, stress free happiness will keep you healthy.
84. Immune system will heal itself
85. Parts of our bodies are replaced every day, every week, etc. Within a few years we have a brand new body
86. See yourself living in a new body. Hopeful = recovery. Happy = happier biochemistry. Stress degrades the body.
87. Remove stress from the body and the body regenerates itself. You can heal yourself
88. Learn to become still… and take your attention away from what you don’t want, and place your attention on what you wish to experience
89. When the voice and vision on the inside become more profound and clear than the opinions on the outside, then you have mastered your life
90. You are not here to try to get the world to be just as you want it. You are here to create the world around you that you choose.
91. And allow the world as others choose to see it, exist as well
92. People think that if everyone knows the power of the LOA there won’t be enough to go around… This is a lie that’s been ingrained in us and makes so many greedy.
93. The truth is there is more than enough love, creative ideas, power, joy, happiness to go around.
94. All of this abundance begins to shine through a mind that is aware of it’s own infinite nature. There’s enough for everyone. See it. Believe it. it will show up for you.
95. So let the variety of your reality thrill you as you choose all the things you want… get behind the good feelings of all your wants.
96. Write your script. When you see things you don’t want, don’t think about them, write about them, talk about them, push against them, or join groups that focus on the don’t wants… remove your attention from don’t wants.. and place them on do wants
97. We are mass energy. Everything is energy. EVERYTHING.
98. Don’t define yourself by your body… it’s the infinite being that’s connected to everything in the universe.
99. One energy field. Our bodies have distracted us from our energy. We are the infinite field of unfolding possibilities. The creative force.
100. Are your thoughts worthy of you? If not – NOW is the time to change them. You can begin right where you are right now. Nothing matters but this moment and what you are focusing your attention on.
I am happy to post this interview with two incredible women who have mastered the teaching of Law of Attraction and who really understand prosperity. Eva Gregory, CPPC and Jeanna Gabellini, CPPC, of Abundance Abounds dive into their wonderful prosperity mindset and something very cool that they have finally decided to “come out of the closet” on, and are now teaching! These ladies are so much fun, with great energy, and I know you’re going to love this interview!
Jeanna and Eva are the authors of several programs and books including The Prosperity Game Home Study Course™, The Magnetizing Money Course™, and 12 Weeks to Financial Fortune™. Their newest book, Life Lessons for Mastering the Law of Attraction, co-authored with Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hanson is in bookstores everywhere.
Eva received her coaching certification from The Coaches Training Institute and has had further training with CoachU and Corporate CoachU. She is the Past President of the International Coach Federation (ICF) San Francisco East Bay Coaches. Her business background includes over twenty years in finance & operations and marketing with a Fortune 100 corporation, marketing executive of a software start-up firm, and owner of her own coaching and training firm.
Jeanna received her coaching certification from The Coaches Training Institute. In 1998, she was one of the first coaches in the world—and the youngest—to receive the designation of Master Certified Coach by the International Coach Federation. Jeanna has served on the board of both the Personal Professional Coaching Association and the International Coach Federation.
In their words: ” What if …you learned how to deliberately focus your thoughts and actions in a way that attraction principles led to you manifesting your most important goals? You may think you have to work hard and long to reach the things you want in life. Not true! We’re here to prove that you can begin enjoying everything you want in life NOW. Not later or someday. Right now! And without struggle! We’re not just talking theory! We put you smack dab into the heart of what you want and give specific steps and exercises. We are BIG advocates of taking inspired actions. If it ain’t fun, then you need to find another route. Your emotions never lie! They are your barometer to know if what you are feeling and doing is working for you or against you.
To have a life filled with Prosperity and Abundance is your birthright! It’s not something you have to wish for … strive for … or pray for. It’s already yours! You just have to accept it.And we’re going to show you how to do exactly that! Learn to live the ultimate lifestyle you’ve always dreamed about … starting TODAY. The Law of Attraction is always working in your life.”
Learn more at Abundance Abounds
Law of Attraction Expert Lilou Mace on Prosperity Radio Episode 6
I hope you enjoy this is an interview with Lilou Mace, one of the people who really understands how to consciously apply the Law of Attraction. She tells her juicy story of deciding to meet Oprah Winfrey and then manifesting it within 2 days. She also just announced the pending release of her first book. The title is still a secret, but it has to do with positively dealing with losing your job and how to use the Law of Attraction to get on the path you were meant to be on. As soon as she releases the title and has the official publication date, I will have her back on the show to tell us more about it. Lilou’s energy is very high and her motto is “Live a Juicy Life!” and that is unique and wonderful and I think you will be able to tell when you listen that she lives by that motto!
Lilou is one of the co-founders of the 100 Day Reality Challenge, which is a very popular personal transformation program that people , and film, blog, journal, or otherwise share their transformative experiences online. As they ask on the website: “What would happen if you recorded yourself for 100 days as you put Universal Laws & Principles into practice? Laws such as: the Law of Attraction, Law of Deliberate Creation and the Law of Allowing, Law of Action, etc.” It’s quite an amazing phenomenon, and you can find out more information about it at http://www.cocreatingourreality.com
Lilou also has a very popular YouTube channel where she posts daily videos, which can be found here: http://www.youtube.com/user/liloumace Enjoy!
I am happy to post this interview with Rich German! Rich is a great guy and a pleasure to listen to. As Founder and Creative Director of True Wealth Unlimited, Rich German is recognized as one of the most accomplished and popular business and life coaches in North America. Since 1999, he has conducted over 16,000 individual coaching sessions and has led numerous training seminars for thousands more.
Rich first came to my attention through the publication of his book, Living the Law of Attraction, which is a collection of “manifestation” stories, which he co-wrote with his sister Robin Hoch. They describe the book as “real stories of people manifesting Health, Wealth, and Happiness. And that is EXACTLY what Prosperity Radio is all about, so I am excited to have him appear on the show!
He guides his clients to dramatically increase their creativity, greatness, happiness, wealth and goal attainment. Rich coaches business owners and salespeople; many earning well over $1,000,000 a year in income. In line with his concept of True Wealth, Rich helps people succeed not only in business but also in their physical, mental, spiritual and family lives as well. Additionally, Rich is an experienced mentor in the areas of energy, wellness and higher consciousness. He is on track to have a PhD in Integrative Health Sciences (Preventative Medicine) by the 1st Quarter of 2009.
A prolific writer, Rich is author of the new book Living the Law of Attraction plus a series of short spiritual books called Wisdom From The Path. He is also a certified meditation teacher and teaches meditations weekly via teleconference classes.
Rich’s core philosophy is that we all have a soul that is pure and enlightened. Experiencing True Wealth is about purifying the mind and the body to allow the light and love of your soul to shine through. It is about living, thinking, eating, being and acting in ways that lead to amazing amounts of happiness and peace.